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Have You Unplugged, Yet?
Posted by: | CommentsA lot has been written lately about unplugging. Taking a day a week or a month at unplug from technology so you can re-connect with yourself and with the ones you love.
But are you doing it?
Since we don’t see it as a necessity, we can find all sorts of excuses – my family will get mad at me if I turn of their technology, I just need to make one more phone call, but a show I like is coming on…
How can you make unplugging work for you?
- Plan for this time and anticipate it. Create an email autoresponder saying you are unplugging for the day. Pick up the house the night before. Run your errands during the week.
- Plan activities that you love to do that will keep you and your family away from technology. Stroll, go to the beach, play games, visit friends, watch the sunset, dance in your living room with your family, do something creative.
- Remember the importance. Do you remember free time when you were younger? I remember growing up Sundays we would go to church, have a big dinner, read the paper, go on nature walks or other family activity. In the evening we would do our own thing, relaxing. How would it feel for you to unplug?
- Turn off the cell phone. Unplug the TV. Hide the DVD player and video games. Keep the computer off.
- Create a ritual to remind you of your unplugging – lighting a candle, changing clothes, a few minutes of deep breathing.
What do you need to do today to be able to take a day off this weekend to unplug?
Love Affair with Life
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Abrams Falls, Smoky Mountains we visited this June
Responsible adults often seem to have lost their love affair with life. In the cult of busyness there is no time for things that aren’t productive.
Like going on a nature walk. Singing with all your heart. Having a deep conversation with a friend for hours. Seeing the beauty in a sunset. Savoring a ripe strawberry.
But, aren’t these things what makes life more joyful and fulfilling? It’s not how many emails we can churn out, how clean the house is or whether we pulled an all nighter so the project could be done by the unrealistic deadline.
It’s being aware of the beauty around us and the people we live our lives with. Living life with purpose and meaning instead of finishing a to do list. Really tasting, smelling, hearing, seeing and touching the present moment. Not waiting for some future goal to be achieved.
What can make you fall more in love with your life today?
3 Steps to Renewal
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Holland State Park – Lake Michigan where I often go for renewal
1) Schedule a sabbath weekly – no computer, no shopping, no work, no chores. If taking a full day off is a bit scary, start with one hour a weekend. You will get more energy so you will want to add hours the next weekend. I love my day of rest to go to the beach, read, take family hikes, play board games, and let go of the week’s work.
2) Decide how you are currently relaxing that doesn’t make you feel relaxed. Too much TV, computer games, shopping, and so on often leaves you feeling empty and blah, rather than relaxed.
3) Do something you really enjoy and that engages you during one of your usual zoning out periods. Instead of a TV episode try playing the piano, going out to see live music or going for a walk with a friend. What makes you feel alive?
Relaxing Videos
Posted by: | CommentsYesterday I had a retreat day and while looking for relaxing background music, I found these soothing videos.
Most people find it difficult to sit still and watch for more than a couple minutes. Maybe you can start with the shorter videos and move up as you allow yourself more relaxing time.
Instrumental 2 minutes
Havasupai Indian Waterfall Relaxation 3 minutes
Piano in the forest 4 minutes
Harp Music 5 minutes
Terry Oldfields Underwater World 8 minutes
Night Music 9 minutes
Virtual serenity 20 minutes













