How you think about yourself as a housekeeper can affect how you care for your home.
If "other people" have the pretty, organized homes you are less likely to have that kind of home.
If you think you are disorganized, lazy, scattered you are more likely to act that way.
In my classes, we talk a lot about breaking through the beliefs that are holding you back. The beliefs that limit you. That tell you what is possible.
Organizing, cleaning and decluttering are much more about habits that who you are as a person. I was not "born organized". I needed to learn skills and habits to live the life I wanted. And you can too.
What do you need to believe to experience a simpler, saner life?
I don’t get more done when I hurry.
I can create habits that support me.
I desire a more peaceful home.
I can create the atmosphere in my home.
Notice your beliefs regarding you and your home.